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Sunday May 11

Peninsula

3:00PM: Krav Maga: Practical self-defense for the real world

Jesse Robbins

Krav Maga: Practical self-defense for the real world

Presenter: Jesse Robbins

Peninsula, on Sunday May 11 at 3:00PM

This 90-minute seminar will teach important techniques provided in the beginner level of Krav Maga. Techniques include straight palm heel strike, hammerfist strike, forward elbow strike, groin kick, and defense against choke from the front. Attendees who care about protecting themselves and those they love are encouraged to attend. This seminar will be intense, active, safe, and fun!

Presenter Info

Jesse Robbins Owner, Krav Maga Central District Krav Maga Alliance certified Expert II instructor

5:30PM: Early Check-in

Esprit Master

Early Check-in

Peninsula, on Sunday May 11 at 5:30PM

Early check-in for attendees who are fully paid and have pictures that were submitted or from the previous yearbook. The Early Check-in Desk will be just inside the door of the Peninsula Room.

6:00PM: Sunday Evening Ice Breaker

Esprit Master

Sunday Evening Ice Breaker

Peninsula, on Sunday May 11 at 6:00PM

On Sunday evening there will be an icebreaker Cocktail Party for all of the early arrivals at Esprit. Snacks will be provided by Esprit and wine, beer and cocktails will be available from the no-host bar. The party starts early in the evening and is a great time to renew old friendships and see what folks have been up to since the last Esprit.

For first-time attendees this is a fabulous time to meet people and get charged up for the coming week! The party will be held in the Peninsula room.

Years ago, the Icebreaker was held in the patio on the water side of the restaurant. The patio is slightly sunken and has glass all the way around it so that the diners in the restaurant can see the water. The attendees in 2001 promptly named it "The Fishbowl"!

This is the traditional kickoff to the week of Esprit. While this icebreaker is pretty much the same each year, Esprit definitely is not. The week is just getting started and there is a full slate of fun.

Monday May 12

Esprit Lobby

8:00AM: Registration OPEN - Morning

Esprit Master

Registration OPEN - Morning

Esprit Lobby, on Monday May 12 at 8:00AM

Esprit Registration Desk is OPEN for checkin, badge photos, badge pickup and general inquiries.

1:00PM: Registration OPEN - Afternoon

Esprit Master

Registration OPEN - Afternoon

Esprit Lobby, on Monday May 12 at 1:00PM

Esprit Registration Desk is OPEN for checkin, badge photos, badge pickup and general inquiries.

Peninsula

9:00AM: Koffee Klatsch

Alyssa Yee

Koffee Klatsch

Presenter: Alyssa Yee

Peninsula, on Monday May 12 at 9:00AM

A morning get-together for first-time attendees. Come share stories, insights, experiences and feelings with your friends. While you're here, enjoy a morning coffee or tea and catch up on what's coming up today.

FIRST-TIME ATTENDEES ONLY, PLEASE.

Presenter Info

Alyssa attended her first Esprit in 2001. Among her many duties, she is the Big Sister/Little Sister Liaison in addition to leading the Koffee Klatsch.

10:00AM: Styling the Perfect Outfit

Emily Wilson

Styling the Perfect Outfit

Presenter: Emily Wilson

Peninsula, on Monday May 12 at 10:00AM

There is only one rule of fashion: Wear whatever you like! But there are some general guidelines that are commonly used in feminine fashion to create outfits that are harmonious and that flatter the figure. This class will explore those guidelines, offering examples of commonly recognized “Do’s” and “Don’ts”, to help you create such outfits.

Presenter Info

Emily Wilson is retired after careers in education and social services. She lives in Washington, and enjoys fashion and nature.

1:00PM: Anyone can be a LGBTQ+ Advocate

Caela Hopkins

Anyone can be a LGBTQ+ Advocate

Presenter: Caela Hopkins

Peninsula, on Monday May 12 at 1:00PM

LGBTQ+ Advocacy doesn't just mean being Out and Loud and Waving the Flag- there are many opportunities both large and small that can make a difference for our community! This seminar will cover the many ways in which you can be a advocate. Introvert or extrovert, out or stealth, or simply just a supporter- there are big and small actions you can take to make Trans and other LGBTQ+ lives better.

Presenter Info

Caela Hopkins (she/her) is the Chairwoman and second-generation participant of the Esprit Gala & Conference.  From the greater Seattle area, Caela is a member of the Emerald City Social Club and is currently serving as its Social Director. As part of a multi-generational transgender family, Caela has navigated the challenges experienced by people at different points on the gender spectrum from first jobs to elder care, and brings this broad spectrum of viewpoints to her advocacy.  Caela has recently expanded her advocacy outside the Pacific Northwest by serving on the national board of Gamma Kappa Mu Transgender Sorority/Fraternity.

SO Lounge

9:00AM: SO Program - Overview and Welcome Message (no session)

Dotti Berry

SO Program - Overview and Welcome Message (no session)

Presenter: Dotti Berry

SO Lounge, on Monday May 12 at 9:00AM

2025 Esprit Theme for SO’s and Couples: TBA

Message from Dotti Berry, Facilitator

This year’s theme, “Walking on Sunshine...Together!” is a perfect next step from last year’s theme, “Loving Who You Are!” There’s no better place to embrace this journey than in Port Angeles, WA — a truly remarkable community that has supported Esprit for over 30 years. This town’s warm embrace allows you to love who you are because they love and welcome you first.

The beautiful visual of this year’s theme captures the essence of “Walking on Sunshine...Together” — a celebration of joy, love, and that amazing feeling when 

things finally start falling into place. As the song goes: “I’m walking on sunshine, and don’t it feel good!”

As I share every year, this experience is about the joy of tapping into your authentic self. I’ve had the privilege of serving as facilitator of the SO/Couples program for 22 years (and yes, I’m counting the two years we missed due to the pandemic — I was with you in spirit!). Esprit is an extraordinary opportunity for self-discovery and growth — whether you’re learning how to love and accept yourself more fully as an SO (Significant Other), someone who is transgender or questioning, or as a couple navigating this journey together.

But here’s the truth: tapping into your joy and love — walking on sunshine together — isn’t a final destination. It’s not a place you arrive at and stay forever. It’s an ongoing process — a beautiful, sometimes perplexing journey (and trust me, your facilitator feels this too!). You’ll never reach a finish line when it comes to self-love and self- discovery because there is no finish line. Life is fluid. Growth is continuous. The magic lies in embracing the journey itself.

I invite you to “Enjoy the Ride” — because it’s your ride. Your unique, evolving, sometimes bumpy, but always transformative journey. And that’s why Walking on Sunshine...Together is a lifelong experience. Every day really is a new day — and that can either work for you or against you. Whatever you believe shapes your reality. So why not choose the belief that life works for you?

One day you’ll wake up feeling unstoppable, ready to say, “Wow, I finally get it! I’m truly on my way to loving who I am!” And the next day, you might wake up, look in the mirror, and wonder, “Who ARE you?” I’ve been there myself — like when I moved 2,300 miles across the country to live with Robynne. One day, you feel like Ms. Popularity — confident and self-assured — and the next, it feels like the whole world thinks you’re falling short. But this isn’t about them — it’s about you and how you feel about yourself.

The key is learning how to quiet the voices of your inner Saboteurs — those critical, fear-based thoughts that try to derail you — and turning up the volume of your Sage, your authentic, wise self. The truth is, nobody else has the authority to determine your worth or your right to love yourself. If you’ve been giving that power away — stop it! It’s not anyone else’s job to hand you a magic wand and tell you you’re okay. That’s your job. You hold that magic wand — and it’s time to tap yourself on the head and declare, “Who I am is okay. And I love who I am!”

The most important part of Walking on Sunshine...Together is embracing the joy and love within you — because only then can you invite others to love you and truly accept 

their love. This is especially important when it comes to your spouse or partner. That self-love becomes the cornerstone of a beautiful, evolving, and respectful relationship.

Many of you may already understand that being transgender is not a choice. But choosing to live authentically — to be honest with yourself and those you love — is a choice. Loving yourself and loving others is a choice too, even when it takes time. And part of that choice is inviting your spouse, partner, friends, and family to walk this journey with you.

Our program provides a safe, supportive space to reflect, explore, and empower yourself as you navigate this path. As an SO, as someone who is transgender or questioning, and as a couple, you’ll face choices — sometimes ones you don’t feel fully prepared for. This week is a chance to gain clarity, find support, and take steps forward with greater understanding and confidence.

Every relationship is unique. While we may share common threads, no two stories are exactly alike. Both the SO and the person who is transgender need empathy, patience, and space to explore their evolving selves and their relationship. Through this program, you’ll find the support you need to move beyond isolation and rediscover the you who may have felt lost along the way.

For those returning to Esprit and the SO/Couples program, you may find that your family’s story has continued evolving — and that growth is part of your journey too.

Whether you’re married or partnered with someone who’s FtM, MtF, a crossdresser, transgender, nonbinary, or genderqueer — and whether your partnership involves two people or more — Esprit’s SO/Couples program is here to help. This is a space where you can find answers to your questions, build meaningful friendships, and feel truly seen, heard, and supported.

At Esprit, everyone is welcome — whether you’re attending for the first time or the tenth. Because everyone has value. And that’s worth celebrating. Message from Dotti Berry, Facilitator

This year’s theme, “Walking on Sunshine...Together!” is a perfect next step from last year’s theme, “Loving Who You Are!” There’s no better place to embrace this journey than in Port Angeles, WA — a truly remarkable community that has supported Esprit for over 30 years. This town’s warm embrace allows you to love who you are because they love and welcome you first.

The beautiful visual of this year’s theme captures the essence of “Walking on Sunshine...Together” — a celebration of joy, love, and that amazing feeling when 

things finally start falling into place. As the song goes: “I’m walking on sunshine, and don’t it feel good!”

As I share every year, this experience is about the joy of tapping into your authentic self. I’ve had the privilege of serving as facilitator of the SO/Couples program for 22 years (and yes, I’m counting the two years we missed due to the pandemic — I was with you in spirit!). Esprit is an extraordinary opportunity for self-discovery and growth — whether you’re learning how to love and accept yourself more fully as an SO (Significant Other), someone who is transgender or questioning, or as a couple navigating this journey together.

But here’s the truth: tapping into your joy and love — walking on sunshine together — isn’t a final destination. It’s not a place you arrive at and stay forever. It’s an ongoing process — a beautiful, sometimes perplexing journey (and trust me, your facilitator feels this too!). You’ll never reach a finish line when it comes to self-love and self- discovery because there is no finish line. Life is fluid. Growth is continuous. The magic lies in embracing the journey itself.

I invite you to “Enjoy the Ride” — because it’s your ride. Your unique, evolving, sometimes bumpy, but always transformative journey. And that’s why Walking on Sunshine...Together is a lifelong experience. Every day really is a new day — and that can either work for you or against you. Whatever you believe shapes your reality. So why not choose the belief that life works for you?

One day you’ll wake up feeling unstoppable, ready to say, “Wow, I finally get it! I’m truly on my way to loving who I am!” And the next day, you might wake up, look in the mirror, and wonder, “Who ARE you?” I’ve been there myself — like when I moved 2,300 miles across the country to live with Robynne. One day, you feel like Ms. Popularity — confident and self-assured — and the next, it feels like the whole world thinks you’re falling short. But this isn’t about them — it’s about you and how you feel about yourself.

The key is learning how to quiet the voices of your inner Saboteurs — those critical, fear-based thoughts that try to derail you — and turning up the volume of your Sage, your authentic, wise self. The truth is, nobody else has the authority to determine your worth or your right to love yourself. If you’ve been giving that power away — stop it! It’s not anyone else’s job to hand you a magic wand and tell you you’re okay. That’s your job. You hold that magic wand — and it’s time to tap yourself on the head and declare, “Who I am is okay. And I love who I am!”

The most important part of Walking on Sunshine...Together is embracing the joy and love within you — because only then can you invite others to love you and truly accept 

their love. This is especially important when it comes to your spouse or partner. That self-love becomes the cornerstone of a beautiful, evolving, and respectful relationship.

Many of you may already understand that being transgender is not a choice. But choosing to live authentically — to be honest with yourself and those you love — is a choice. Loving yourself and loving others is a choice too, even when it takes time. And part of that choice is inviting your spouse, partner, friends, and family to walk this journey with you.

Our program provides a safe, supportive space to reflect, explore, and empower yourself as you navigate this path. As an SO, as someone who is transgender or questioning, and as a couple, you’ll face choices — sometimes ones you don’t feel fully prepared for. This week is a chance to gain clarity, find support, and take steps forward with greater understanding and confidence.

Every relationship is unique. While we may share common threads, no two stories are exactly alike. Both the SO and the person who is transgender need empathy, patience, and space to explore their evolving selves and their relationship. Through this program, you’ll find the support you need to move beyond isolation and rediscover the you who may have felt lost along the way.

For those returning to Esprit and the SO/Couples program, you may find that your family’s story has continued evolving — and that growth is part of your journey too.

Whether you’re married or partnered with someone who’s FtM, MtF, a crossdresser, transgender, nonbinary, or genderqueer — and whether your partnership involves two people or more — Esprit’s SO/Couples program is here to help. This is a space where you can find answers to your questions, build meaningful friendships, and feel truly seen, heard, and supported.

At Esprit, everyone is welcome — whether you’re attending for the first time or the 4th, 10th or 20th time! Because everyone has value. And that’s worth celebrating.

Presenter Info

Dotti Berry, CEO of Training2Transform Global Communications, was truly “Born to Coach.” This year marks her 22nd year as the facilitator of the Esprit SO/ Couples Program, where she works with both Significant Others and Couples in a journey of understanding, growth, and connection.

As a Consultant, Coach, Trainer/Facilitator, Speaker, and Certified Positive Intelligence Coach, Dotti brings a wealth of experience and heart to her work. She pursued her doctorate in Human Sexuality and studied with Brian McNaught — called the “Godfather of Gay Sensitivity Training” by The New York Times — at the Thornfield Annual Conference on Sexuality, where she completed a specialized track on corporate diversity and LGBTQ+ issues in the workplace. Dotti is a passionate advocate for the acceptance and inclusion of transgender, gender-diverse, gender- questioning and gender queer individuals, often saying: “Not only should they not be left behind — we must invite them to lead the way and take a place at the head of the table.”

In 2017, Dotti and Brian McNaught co-created “Talk With America”, a series of live hangouts designed to foster authentic, transformative conversations across divides. Their mission was to:

• Create a space for meaningful dialogue rooted in wisdom, grace, and humor.

• Compassionately listen and engage with those who hold differing attitudes and opinions.

• Respond vs. react, taking actions that reflect our deepest values. • Embrace transformation over adversarial interactions.

Dotti often reflects on the connection between Talk With America and the work done at Esprit, highlighting the importance of listening, understanding, and building bridges.

Throughout her career, Dotti has coached individuals across the expansive spectrum of gender diversity and has served as a keynote speaker at conferences. She’s facilitated groups for SOs and couples at major events like Fantasia Fair, Southern Comfort, and the International Foundation for Gender Education (IFGE), in addition to her long-standing commitment to Esprit.

An accomplished author and facilitator, Dotti has worked with both youth and adults since 1985 — leading seminars and workshops for organizations, universities, corporations, religious institutions, and leadership programs. Some of the diverse groups she’s collaborated with include Sodexo, Info Quest Clinical, the Girl Scouts, NCCJ (National Conference of Community and Justice), the University of Kentucky, Women Out Front, and Soulforce. Her areas of expertise range from executive coaching, Positive Intelligence, and personal transformation to LGBTQ+ issues, diversity, team-building, and non- violent communication.

In 2005/06 Dotti, her spouse Robynne Sapp, and their beloved standard poodle Rylee Joy embarked on a year-long journey called Gay Into Straight America, dedicated to engaging hearts and minds, creating authentic connections, and transcending the differences that separate us. In 2012, they traveled throughout Washington state, speaking about the importance of the Freedom to Marry for ALL. Though they lost Rylee Joy in 2016, their family grew again with the addition of Baylee Joy, a red standard poodle who made her Esprit debut in 2017, and Willow, Baylee Joy’s mother, who joined their family in 2018. The four of them continue to bring love and joy to every adventure — including Esprit! 

9:00PM: Esprit Lounge

Dara Vink

Esprit Lounge

Organizer: Dara Vink

SO Lounge, on Monday May 12 at 9:00PM

The Esprit Lounge is open most evenings in Room 148 (by the Esprit Registration Desk). It's a place to socialise, chat, share experiences and stories and generally let your hair down. Bring your own snacks to share, along with your beverage of choice. Please indulge responsibly, of course.

At the end of the evening, please clean up as required and leave the room clean and ready for the next morning's session..

Most evenings there there will be a facilitator to help things run smoothly.

Elk's Pickleball Courts

10:00AM: Pickleball Beginners Class

Cindi Berry

Pickleball Beginners Class

Presenter: Cindi Berry

Elk's Pickleball Courts, on Monday May 12 at 10:00AM

What's pickleball? This fast-moving court sport is rapidly becoming a fad all across the nation! Take a badminton-style court, slightly overgrown ping-pong paddles, two or four maniacal players, throw in a whiffle ball and watch the action start!

Don't know how to play? Then this introductory beginners session is for you! We'll have a couple of experienced players to teach you the rules and some basic techniques so you'll be ready for the tournament that follows.

Esprit is organizing an in-house tournament this year (usually we play with the locals of Port Angeles). We'll have more details as they become available.

12:00PM: Pickleball Tournament

Cindi Berry

Pickleball Tournament

Presenter: Cindi Berry

Elk's Pickleball Courts, on Monday May 12 at 12:00PM

What's pickleball? This fast-moving court sport is rapidly becoming a fad all across the nation! Take a badminton-style court, slightly overgrown ping-pong paddles, two or four maniacal players, throw in a whiffle ball and watch the action start!

Esprit is organizing an in-house tournament this year (usually we play with the locals of Port Angeles). We'll have more details as they become available.

Elks Pool Room

6:00PM: Stephanie Avion Chix w Stix Pool Tournament

Jan Jefferies

Stephanie Avion Chix w Stix Pool Tournament

Organizer: Jan Jefferies

Elks Pool Room, on Monday May 12 at 6:00PM

Registration: 6pm
Play starts: 7pm

Pool tables have always gone hand in hand with adventure, vice, and women of mystery. Usually it's the men who own the room, but at Esprit things are a bit different.

Imagine a roomful of short-skirted hoochies competing fiercely for the prized title of Esprit Pool Tournament Champion. A 20's gangster moll here, a film noir femme fatale there, and a biker chick over by the bar...drop them all into a small pool hall, and you have the Annual Esprit Pool Tournament.

The Naval Elks Lodge hosts the tournament in their private pool room. There will be assistants to help run the tournament. The Elks has a no-host bar and will provide a taco bar for about $17.00.

This is a friendly tournament and everyone has plenty of opportunities to play regardless of skill level. We will follow the Official Rules of the BCA Pool League (with a few changes to better accommodate recreational play) and contact the pool tournament coordinator, if you have other questions.

Back at the Red Lion, many attendees also enjoy hanging out in the hotel bar which truly becomes one of the hottest and most interesting places in town during the week of Esprit.

The tournament was renamed in 2020/2021 in honour of Stephanie Avion, who served for many years on the Esprit Committee.

 

Tuesday May 13

Victoria, BC

7:30AM: Day trip to Victoria BC and Butchart Gardens

Esprit Master

Day trip to Victoria BC and Butchart Gardens

Victoria, BC, on Tuesday May 13 at 7:30AM

Tuesday 7:30 am. Meet in Esprit Lobby. Passport or Enhanced Drivers License is required for entry to Canada and return to USA.

Victoria BC Trip and High Tea at Butchart Gardens

Costs are NOT included in your Esprit registration.

  • Ferry (round trip on MV Coho) is US$43.50/person
  • Taxi to Butchart Gardens (EACH way) CAD$55; can split between 4 passengers
  • Butchart Gardens Admission: CAD$36.50/person
  • High Tea: CAD$49.40/person

This year we will again travel to beautiful British Columbia for High Tea and a full day of sightseeing. You will want to wear your finest frock (the Gardens has a dress code) and of course a beautiful hat. An extra bag is suggested to carry walking shoes as a tour of the various gardens involves plenty of walking. When we disembark from the Coho ferry, we board a cab to convey us 14 miles north to the Gardens. There will be plenty of time to take in the Gardens either before or after High Tea.

Of course, you can join the group just for the ferry, enjoy Victoria and meet back up for the return trip.

The Gardens

The Butchart Gardens is one of the world's premier floral show gardens. Jennie Butchart began to shape this magnificent landscape in 1904. She established, in the style of the grand estates of the period, several distinct gardens to evoke a range of aesthetic experiences. An abandoned limestone quarry was transformed into the dramatic Sunken Garden, a reflection of the early 20th-century beautification movement and an exceptional achievement in Canadian gardening history. Through successive generations of the Butchart family, The Gardens has retained much of its original design, and continues the Victorian tradition of seasonally changing the outstanding floral displays covering more than twenty acres!!.

Presenter Info

Jan Jeffries

Peninsula

9:00AM: Koffee Klatsch

Alyssa Yee

Koffee Klatsch

Presenter: Alyssa Yee

Peninsula, on Tuesday May 13 at 9:00AM

A morning get-together for first-time attendees. Come share stories, insights, experiences and feelings with your friends. While you're here, enjoy a morning coffee or tea and catch up on what's coming up today.

FIRST-TIME ATTENDEES ONLY, PLEASE.

Presenter Info

Alyssa attended her first Esprit in 2001. Among her many duties, she is the Big Sister/Little Sister Liaison in addition to leading the Koffee Klatsch.

10:00AM: The Spectrum of Sexuality Panel Discussion

Kathrynn McKenna

The Spectrum of Sexuality Panel Discussion

Presenter: Kathrynn McKenna

Peninsula, on Tuesday May 13 at 10:00AM

The theme of the panel is to have a frank conversation about the spectrum of sexual identity and its components- and how you identify under the LGBTQ umbrella. We will cover multiple perspectives and celebrate that we are all evolving, and you are not alone in your journey.

Presenter Info

Kathrynn McKenna is the managing partner in TranSpace. TranSpace is designed to make it easier for Transgender individuals to dress whenever they desire, to go out whenever they please, and to store their "things" whenever they need. Just think, no more restrictions because of neighbors, daylight, children, or SO’s. Store your things at TranSpace, go there whenever you like, dress in a private dressing area, use the vanity to do your makeup and hair, then meet friends and lounge around in the social area, or embark on your chosen adventure for the day, or night.

1:00PM: Fashion Tips for the Transgender Woman

Kathrynn McKenna

Fashion Tips for the Transgender Woman

Presenter: Kathrynn McKenna

Peninsula, on Tuesday May 13 at 1:00PM

(full description forthcoming)

Presenter Info

Kathrynn McKenna is the managing partner in TranSpace. TranSpace is designed to make it easier for Transgender individuals to dress whenever they desire, to go out whenever they please, and to store their "things" whenever they need. Just think, no more restrictions because of neighbors, daylight, children, or SO’s. Store your things at TranSpace, go there whenever you like, dress in a private dressing area, use the vanity to do your makeup and hair, then meet friends and lounge around in the social area, or embark on your chosen adventure for the day, or night.

2:30PM: Blue Monday

Karen Williams

Blue Monday

Presenter: Karen Williams

Peninsula, on Tuesday May 13 at 2:30PM

All good things come to an end, even Esprit. After living our dreams for a week, first timers often find "the end" stunningly traumatic. We return to our homes, jobs, loved ones, and closets with a heavy heart, tears, sometimes deep depression. Karen shows first timers (and others) how to duck the worst traumas by treating ourselves well afterwards, staying in contact with friends we meet at Esprit, planning treats to look forward to, and applying bunches of additional ideas gathered over the years from sisters facing their own blue Mondays.

Presenter Info

Karen Williams has been a member of the Emerald City since 1987. She has held numerous positions including president, newsletter editor social chair and vice president. Karen has also been involved with Esprit since its inception in 1990. She has also been involved in transgender class panels at the University of Washington, Highline Community College and Peninsula College since 1992. She lives with her wife in Kirkland, Washington and moves back and forth between her male role and female role as necessary.

7:30PM: Game Night

Cindi Berry

Game Night

Organizer: Cindi Berry

Peninsula, on Tuesday May 13 at 7:30PM

Join us for a night of board and card games with your fellow Esprit Attendees.

SO Lounge

9:00AM: SO Program - But I'm Not a Lesbian!

Dotti Berry

SO Program - But I'm Not a Lesbian!

Presenter: Dotti Berry

SO Lounge, on Tuesday May 13 at 9:00AM

For SO's ONLY. For the Significant Other of the transgender partner, whether such partner is male, female, or questioning.

But I’m Not a Lesbian!

When your partner explores or embraces a more feminine expression, whether through occasional crossdressing or a full-time transition, it can stir up a lot of unexpected emotions — confusion, fear, and questions about your own identity. Many SOs struggle with how society may perceive their relationship and what that means for them personally. In this session, we’ll create a safe, supportive space to address those feelings and help you understand that while your partner’s appearance may change, the essence of who they are — and why you love them — remains the same.

Presenter Info

See writeup under "Overview" session

1:30PM: SO Program - Finding Balance in Change

Dotti Berry

SO Program - Finding Balance in Change

Presenter: Dotti Berry

SO Lounge, on Tuesday May 13 at 1:30PM

For transgender couples (all parties must attend)

Finding Balance in Change

When one partner explores their gender expression — whether through crossdressing or transition — both partners experience change. This session helps couples navigate those shifts, fostering honest communication and mutual support. Together, we’ll explore how to stay connected and keep your relationship strong, even when the journey feels uncertain.

 

Presenter Info

Dotti Berry, CEO of Training2Transform Global Communications. For details, see writeup under "Overview" session.

10:30PM: Esprit Lounge

Dara Vink

Esprit Lounge

Organizer: Dara Vink

SO Lounge, on Tuesday May 13 at 10:30PM

The Esprit Lounge is open most evenings in Room 148 (by the Esprit Registration Desk). It's a place to socialise, chat, share experiences and stories and generally let your hair down. Bring your own snacks to share, along with your beverage of choice. Please indulge responsibly, of course.

At the end of the evening, please clean up as required and leave the room clean and ready for the next morning's session..

Most evenings there there will be a facilitator to help things run smoothly.

Esprit Lobby

10:30AM: Registration OPEN - Morning

Esprit Master

Registration OPEN - Morning

Esprit Lobby, on Tuesday May 13 at 10:30AM

Esprit Registration Desk is OPEN for checkin, badge photos, badge pickup and general inquiries.

2:30PM: Registration OPEN - Afternoon

Esprit Master

Registration OPEN - Afternoon

Esprit Lobby, on Tuesday May 13 at 2:30PM

Esprit Registration Desk is OPEN for checkin, badge photos, badge pickup and general inquiries.

Off-site

11:30AM: Let's Go Thrifting!

Caela Hopkins

Let's Go Thrifting!

Presenter: Caela Hopkins

Off-site, on Tuesday May 13 at 11:30AM

Did you realize you need one more dress for the week? Need something for those last minute touches for your Ascot hat? Maybe you just want to get out in town for a bit with a supportive group? Come join us for an afternoon of thrifting! We'll meet in the Peninsula Room to setup carpools, then we'll head out for a no-host lunch at a local restaurant, and then visit 2-3 local thrift stores before returning to the Red Lion.

Presenter Info

Caela Hopkins (she/her) is one of the co-founders of trans-action.online, a support and advocacy forum for all individuals on the gender identity spectrum. From the greater Seattle area, Caela is a member of the Emerald City Social Club and is a second-generation participant of the Esprit Conference. As part of a multi-generational transgender family, Caela has navigated the challenges experienced by people at different points on the gender spectrum from first jobs to elder care, and brings this broad spectrum of viewpoints to her advocacy.

5:30PM: Dinner at Local Restaurant

Dara Vink

Dinner at Local Restaurant

Presenter: Dara Vink

Off-site, on Tuesday May 13 at 5:30PM

This is an opportunity to get out to a local restaurant with your friends. Meet in the Esprit Lobby AT THE TIME SCHEDULED to arrange car pools etc. Bring your badge so we can keep count of how many prople.

This is NOT an Esprit meal and is NOT included in your registration fee.

Port Angeles Playhouse

7:30PM: Port Angeles Community Theatre presents "Clue: On Stage"

Esprit Master

Port Angeles Community Theatre presents "Clue: On Stage"

Port Angeles Playhouse, on Tuesday May 13 at 7:30PM

The Port Angeles Community Playhouse is delighted to welcome back Esprit members - we have loved hosting Esprit at many previous productions and would be thrilled to have you in our audience. Welcome! The Playhouse is a five minute drive from the Red Lion hotel and is easy to get to. 

The Port Angeles Community Players (PACP) is thrilled to announce their upcoming production of “Clue: On Stage”, written by Sandy Rustin, based on the screenplay by Jonathan Lynn. 

Clue: On Stage is the thrilling, laugh-out-loud, murder mystery you’ve been waiting for! Based on the classic board game and the beloved 1985 film, this live stage adaptation invites you to step into the world of secretive suspects, clever plot twists, and hilarious mayhem.

Six guests are anonymously invited under alias names to a strange mansion for dinner, but after their host is killed, they must cooperate with the staff to identify the murderer as the bodies pile up. Was it Colonel Mustard in the Kitchen with the Rope? Miss Scarlet in the library with the Revolver? Or perhaps it was Mr. Green in the Billiard room with the Candlestick? Or is someone else lurking in the mansion? In this interactive, fast-paced whodunit, you’ll follow the action, uncover hidden clues, and try to piece together the mystery before the final curtains close.

With unforgettable characters, zany twists, and plenty of surprises, Clue: On Stage is a theatrical experience packed with suspense and laughs, perfect for date night, family fun, or a night out with friends. Don’t miss your chance to be part of the action—will YOU be the one to solve the crime?

Tickets at https://pacommunityplayers.org

 

Wednesday May 14

Dungeness Golf, Sequim

9:00AM: Golfing With Sandra

Sandra Finlay

Golfing With Sandra

Presenter: Sandra Finlay

Dungeness Golf, Sequim, on Wednesday May 14 at 9:00AM

Join Esprit's own Sandra Finlay on Wednesday morning for an enjoyable round of golf at the beautiful Dungeness Golf Club in Sequim. Please note that this is NOT a course for inexperienced golfers!

Sign up in the registration area. Please signup early. Price TBA. Meet at registration desk for 9:15, set-up carpools and leave no later than 9:30. Tee times will start around 10:30. Course dress code and regulations in force. Rental clubs available.

If you have never golfed before this is not a course for you.

Presenter Info

Sandra's 2009 debut at Esprit earned her a blue graduation butterfly. Since 2013 I have supported the Esprit conference as a committee member. My main function at Esprit is raising funds for the Volunteer Hospice of Clallam County. I enjoy meeting new people and hearing about their life journey. My vision of Golf: walking in a beautiful park getting fresh air and exercise, enjoying time with friends. If I have a good round that's a bonus!

Esprit Lobby

9:00AM: Registration OPEN - Morning

Esprit Master

Registration OPEN - Morning

Esprit Lobby, on Wednesday May 14 at 9:00AM

Esprit Registration Desk is OPEN for checkin, badge photos, badge pickup and general inquiries.

2:30PM: Registration OPEN - Afternoon

Esprit Master

Registration OPEN - Afternoon

Esprit Lobby, on Wednesday May 14 at 2:30PM

Esprit Registration Desk is OPEN for checkin, badge photos, badge pickup and general inquiries.

Peninsula

9:00AM: Koffee Klatsch

Alyssa Yee

Koffee Klatsch

Presenter: Alyssa Yee

Peninsula, on Wednesday May 14 at 9:00AM

A morning get-together for first-time attendees. Come share stories, insights, experiences and feelings with your friends. While you're here, enjoy a morning coffee or tea and catch up on what's coming up today.

FIRST-TIME ATTENDEES ONLY, PLEASE.

Presenter Info

Alyssa attended her first Esprit in 2001. Among her many duties, she is the Big Sister/Little Sister Liaison in addition to leading the Koffee Klatsch.

1:00PM: Coming Out Late - Navigating the Mental Health Challenges

Lea Foster

Coming Out Late - Navigating the Mental Health Challenges

Presenter: Lea Foster

Peninsula, on Wednesday May 14 at 1:00PM

My talk presents a discussion of the challenges and issues many of us face coming out late in life. After all, those who decide to present part time or transition at this stage of life are generally well established in their careers or retired, often with a partner, and with family. Coming out at this stage presents many challenges to the status quo, particularly when there is push back from friends, colleagues, family, or your partner. As many of you know, arriving at to the decision to come out is hard enough without having to negotiate your self with your community. There will be an open and frank discussion as part of my talk.

 

Presenter Info

Lea is a mental health professional who works with gender-questioning clients  She was a registered psychotherapist in Toronto until she moved to Vancouver in 2021. She is active in the Vancouver trans and crossdressing communities and on the organizing committee of Esprit 2025. She attended Esprit for the first time in 2024 and loved it. She is available for consultations and counselling from her Vancouver home. 

2:30PM: Transition, Love, and Resilience

Renee Randazzo

Transition, Love, and Resilience

Presenter: Renee Randazzo

Peninsula, on Wednesday May 14 at 2:30PM

In this workshop, we'll engage in group discussion about gender affirmation as an act of love... love for the true self, love for a vision of collective liberation. We'll talk about the growth that transition invites from our loving relationships, deepening recognition and expanded hearts. And we will hold space for the processing of grief and honoring of resilience that is needed in the face of loss, ignorance, and injustice.

Presenter Info

My name is Renée Randazzo and I use she/her pronouns. For a decade, I have practiced as a professional counselor specializing in transgender-affirming care, and I have worked with hundreds of gender-expansive people over the years. This coaching practice has allowed me to continue and to elevate my services without the pathologizing medical model setting the frame for the work. I am a transgender-affirming guide who specializes in helping people of all gender identities explore gender issues. I help transgender people and their loved ones navigate emotional growth before, during, and beyond transitions. Additionally, I provide long-term, insight-oriented, trauma-informed witnessing and coaching for people experiencing all types of life changes. Currently I am certified as a Conscious Girlfriend Academy Coach, centering trans and nonbinary people in the realms of dating, intimacy, and love.

7:30PM: Movie Night

Jan Jefferies

Movie Night

Organizer: Jan Jefferies

Peninsula, on Wednesday May 14 at 7:30PM

Will and Harper - more details to follow!

SO Lounge

9:00AM: SO Program - Loving the Person, Not the Presentation

Dotti Berry

SO Program - Loving the Person, Not the Presentation

Presenter: Dotti Berry

SO Lounge, on Wednesday May 14 at 9:00AM

For SO's ONLY. For the Significant Other of the transgender partner, whether such partner is male, female, or questioning.

Loving the Person, Not the Presentation, and the Spectrum of Gender Expression

One of the most challenging parts of this journey is separating your partner’s gender expression from the core of who they are. Whether they crossdress occasionally or are considering or living in a full-time transition, their outer appearance is just one part of their identity.

Not every person who explores their feminine side transitions — some choose to crossdress without making a full-time change, while others may feel called to transition fully. Understanding this spectrum is key to navigating your partner’s journey without making assumptions about what’s next. We’ll discuss the unique challenges and joys of loving someone who expresses their gender in different ways and explore strategies for keeping communication open and supportive.

This session explores how to stay connected to the person you fell in love with, work through evolving dynamics, and foster deeper emotional intimacy as they express themselves more fully.

Presenter Info

Dotti Berry, CEO of Training2Transform Global Communications. For details, see writeup under "Overview" session.

1:30PM: SO Program - Intimacy and Identity: Presenting as a Couple

Dotti Berry

SO Program - Intimacy and Identity: Presenting as a Couple

Presenter: Dotti Berry

SO Lounge, on Wednesday May 14 at 1:30PM

For transgender couples (all parties must attend)

Intimacy and Identity: Presenting as a Couple

As your partner’s gender expression evolves, your relationship’s emotional and physical dynamics may shift, too. Whether they dress part-time or transition full- time, these changes can impact attraction, connection, and intimacy. In this safe, supportive space, we’ll discuss how to nurture closeness, deepen understanding, and keep the spark alive through open and compassionate dialogue.

The way your partner expresses their gender can affect how the world perceives you both. Whether they crossdress occasionally or present full-time in their affirmed gender, you may face questions or reactions from family, friends, and strangers. This session focuses on navigating those external challenges as a team, presenting with confidence, and standing together in love and unity.

Presenter Info

Dotti Berry, CEO of Training2Transform Global Communications. For details, see writeup under "Overview" session.

10:30PM: Esprit Lounge

Dara Vink

Esprit Lounge

Organizer: Dara Vink

SO Lounge, on Wednesday May 14 at 10:30PM

The Esprit Lounge is open most evenings in Room 148 (by the Esprit Registration Desk). It's a place to socialise, chat, share experiences and stories and generally let your hair down. Bring your own snacks to share, along with your beverage of choice. Please indulge responsibly, of course.

At the end of the evening, please clean up as required and leave the room clean and ready for the next morning's session..

Most evenings there there will be a facilitator to help things run smoothly.

Back Lawn

12:00PM: Croquet on the Lawn

Esprit Master

Croquet on the Lawn

Back Lawn, on Wednesday May 14 at 12:00PM

Please note - this is a signup option only so we can gauge interest and numbers.

Join us for a friendly and oh so elegant game of good old-fashioned croquet on the back lawn. How elegant, you say? You finest finery from last night's Ascot Races would not be out of place. If you want to really take it to another level by dressing the part of an English aristocrat in My Fair Lady clothes!

What? You can't play croquet? It's even easier than cricket!

What? You can't play cricket? Okay, how about tee-ball with a ground-level tee!

But really, come and enjoy the fun even if you don't want to dress up!

Off-site

5:30PM: Dinner at Local Restaurant

Dara Vink

Dinner at Local Restaurant

Presenter: Dara Vink

Off-site, on Wednesday May 14 at 5:30PM

This is an opportunity to get out to a local restaurant with your friends. Meet in the Esprit Lobby AT THE TIME SCHEDULED to arrange car pools etc. Bring your badge so we can keep count of how many prople.

This is NOT an Esprit meal and is NOT included in your registration fee.

P N Wonderland Wine

7:00PM: Wine Tasting at PNWonderland Wines

Caela Hopkins

Wine Tasting at PNWonderland Wines

Presenter: Caela Hopkins

P N Wonderland Wine, on Wednesday May 14 at 7:00PM

"PNWonderland Wine's vision is to provide a vibrant women-owned wine bar to passionately engage with community growth and advocate for inclusion. and encourage kindhearted wine babble"

Join us in walking across the street to the newly-opened PNWonderland Wine Bar!  The owners Jess and Rachel have invited the Esprit attendees over for a non-hosted wine tasting, and have curated a special flight for us of three wines that will be available for $15 per person.  Jess and Rachel are both sommeliers and are more than happy to share about the wines we will be tasting.

Their full selection of wines by the glass will also be available for $9-14 per glass. A small snack menu is also available to order from including cheese, charcuterie, tinned fish, nuts, olives, chicharrones. 

Their main entrance is on Lincoln Street right next to Moby Duck—just look for the Pink Door and now Pink Window. 

https://pnwonderlandwine.com/about/

 

Presenter Info

Caela Hopkins (she/her) is the Chairwoman and second-generation participant of the Esprit Gala & Conference.  From the greater Seattle area, Caela is a member of the Emerald City Social Club and is currently serving as its Social Director. As part of a multi-generational transgender family, Caela has navigated the challenges experienced by people at different points on the gender spectrum from first jobs to elder care, and brings this broad spectrum of viewpoints to her advocacy.  Caela has recently expanded her advocacy outside the Pacific Northwest by serving on the national board of Gamma Kappa Mu Transgender Sorority/Fraternity.

Thursday May 15

Esprit Lobby

9:00AM: Registration OPEN - Morning

Esprit Master

Registration OPEN - Morning

Esprit Lobby, on Thursday May 15 at 9:00AM

Esprit Registration Desk is OPEN for checkin, badge photos, badge pickup and general inquiries.

3:30PM: Registration OPEN - Afternoon

Esprit Master

Registration OPEN - Afternoon

Esprit Lobby, on Thursday May 15 at 3:30PM

Esprit Registration Desk is OPEN for checkin, badge photos, badge pickup and general inquiries.

Peninsula

9:00AM: Koffee Klatsch

Alyssa Yee

Koffee Klatsch

Presenter: Alyssa Yee

Peninsula, on Thursday May 15 at 9:00AM

A morning get-together for first-time attendees. Come share stories, insights, experiences and feelings with your friends. While you're here, enjoy a morning coffee or tea and catch up on what's coming up today.

FIRST-TIME ATTENDEES ONLY, PLEASE.

Presenter Info

Alyssa attended her first Esprit in 2001. Among her many duties, she is the Big Sister/Little Sister Liaison in addition to leading the Koffee Klatsch.

10:00AM: Transgender Personalities in History

Melissa Morton

Transgender Personalities in History

Presenter: Melissa Morton

Peninsula, on Thursday May 15 at 10:00AM

Transgender Personalities in History Since humankind began to define the boundaries of gender behavior, there have been people who have defied or crossed over those boundaries. Hear about some of these individuals, from centuries ago to the present day. Some of these were male to female, others were female to male. All of them have left a legacy. Brief biographies of each individual profiled are available upon request.

Presenter Info

Melissa Morton is an amateur historian, a former attorney, and one of the very few multi-era crossdressing historical reenactors anywhere in the world. Melissa has been doing these "Transgender Personalities in History" presentations for several years, but she varies the roster of persons profiled each time, so no two presentations are the same.

1:00PM: Talent Show Auditions

Esprit Master

Talent Show Auditions

Peninsula, on Thursday May 15 at 1:00PM

The Esprit Talent Show is a fun and popular event for the performers, attendees and general public. This year’s show is being produced by the combined skills of the Esprit Committee and a number of talented volunteers. We welcome any type of act; acts in the past have included live musical performances, karaoke, stand-up comedy, magic, dramatic performance…the list goes on! We want the show overall to run about 75 minutes, so to ensure as many acts as possible have time on stage we ask that you limit your act to 5 minutes. With this limitation, and allowing for changeover and short bits between acts we hope to have time for 9-11 acts to perform. If you want to perform, here is a general idea of the production schedule and casting process:

First... SIGN UP! A sign-up sheet will be posted in the registration lobby. Tell us who you are, what you want to do, and how to contact you. If your act involves playback of any music or other technical needs, please contact the technical director Kara Connor  by using the contact page as soon as possible and get her your media or special requests. If at all possible, please get Kara or Stephanie Mitchell your media prior to the auditions.

You must attend the auditions from about 2:00-4:00pm Thursday in the Peninsula Room. You will have a chance to perform your act and update your biographical information. Keep in mind this space is pretty small compared to the Elks stage, so if your act is a big modern dance piece, you might have to pare it down for the audition!

The show will be cast and rehearsal times posted by Thursday evening. Those that are cast will be assigned a 20 minute rehearsal time for Friday afternoon. During this time you will have the chance to rehearse your act a few times, on the Elks stage, and with the sound system so you can get the feel of the stage. Okay, I know what you’re thinking, "20 Minutes to rehearse???!!?!" Keep in mind: Friday afternoon is CRAZY! We will give you 20 minutes of undivided attention to rehearse, but please be punctual, and ready to go! We have to keep on schedule, or the show staff won't have time to change their clothes for the evening! And we don’t want that to happen!

Check in with the show staff before dinner. We need to know everybody's there! Now...relax. Enjoy your dinner. Have fun! You'll need to get ready backstage before dinner ends, especially if you're one of the first acts. Maybe have someone save your dessert! Go out there and break a leg!

General specifications: The stage is about 30' wide X 12' deep. 4 wireless handheld microphones will be available. Straight or boom stands are available. 6 speaker sound system with stage monitor will be provided. If you need props or furniture beyond a chair or maybe a music stand, you are on your own!

Additional needs: 1 or 2 people to volunteer for backstage coordination/stagehand duty would be awesome! Contact the Talent Show Coordinator or the Volunteer Coordinator if you’d like to help out with the show, but don’t want to be onstage. Wear your most fashionable backstage black! You’ll look all cool talking on a headset! No experience necessary!

Presenter Info

For many years the Esprit Talent Show has been produced by Julia Lauer. She brought just the right mix of energy, skill, talent and passion to the production to raise it to a professional-quality production. The town of Port Angeles looks forward to seeing the show every year.

In 2022 due to a sudden emergency just hours before showtime Julia was unable to run the show. However, thanks to her wonderful preparations, her well-trained team carried the evening off without a hitch.

In 2023 we lost our wonderful Julia. Her team couldn't let her down, though, and from rough notes and memories and sheer determination the 2023 Talent Show went on and was as memorable as all the rest. 

2:30PM: Finding your Authentic Voice with Seattle Voice Lab

Claire Michelle Burgess

Finding your Authentic Voice with Seattle Voice Lab

Presenter: Claire Michelle Burgess

Peninsula, on Thursday May 15 at 2:30PM

The founder of Seattle Voice Lab will teach about overcoming fear of voice training and explore the playful and experimental side of finding your voice.

Presenter Info

Claire Michelle Burgess transitioned back in 2014 and spent a few years developing her own voice after years of studying voice at various levels both internationally and in Washington. She studied education and vocal performance at Central Michigan University where she soon found myself frustrated with the narrow focus of the education I was receiving. Through years of post private study in both trans voice and business entrepreneurship, she built the Seattle Voice Lab where we now have a staff of over 20 and has helped thousands of trans voices from all over the world.

4:00PM: Beating Their Swords into Plowshares: Proposing Some Strategies for Defeating Weaponized Religion

Melissa Morton

Beating Their Swords into Plowshares: Proposing Some Strategies for Defeating Weaponized Religion

Presenter: Melissa Morton

Peninsula, on Thursday May 15 at 4:00PM

It is no secret that claims of religious freedom have been used as a sword against transgender persons. It doesn't have to be this way. There is a case to be made that hostile acts against transgender persons do not constitute religion at all, but are merely acts of prejudiced notions. Furthermore, there is a case to be made that it is not an act of freedom to limit the freedom of others. Melissa combines law and theology in her presentation, so come and find out about the $10,000 Challenge!

Presenter Info

Melissa Morton is an attorney turned accountant (now retired) who has been interested in history for many years. Melissa graduated from Davidson College with a B.A. degree in history. While attending law school at the College of William & Mary, Melissa worked at Colonial Williamsburg as a costumed historical interpreter. From this experience she realized that the stories of people, places, and ideas do not tell themselves: they have to be told by others. Melissa occupies the narrow niche of crossdressing historical reenactors, and has become well known in the world of Civil War reenacting. She has an impressive collection of reproduction dresses from multiple eras of history.

7:00PM: Esprit Ascot Races

Esprit Master

Esprit Ascot Races

Peninsula, on Thursday May 15 at 7:00PM

The horses are real, the races are real, the fun is real! Only the money is play! Dress up in your fanciest hat - yes, there's a hat contest! (Need inspiration? Try here!)

Hone your betting skills and bring all your horse race savvy - and a healthy appreciation for the whimsical - to the Peninsula Room Tuesday night. You don't have to know anything about horse racing to have a great time! Your lovely and talented hoss boss and mistress of ceremonies Stephanie Mitchell will make sure you stay on track, regardless of what the horses get up to.

Our talented and beautiful decorators, coordinators, runners and counters are all Esprit attendees and all volunteer their time. Would you like to volunteer to help? Contact our Volunteer Coordinator now!

How it works:

We'll have a big screen onto which a series of professionally packaged, actual horse races and steeplechases will be shown (completely new races this year!). Everyone will be provided a starting amount of betting funds. In between races, you'll study the horses, check the odds, watch the horses parade before the race, and place your bets. The races are real, as is the excitement! Assorted prizes will be awarded to the evening's big winners and non-winners alike and there will be special prizes for the most outrageous and glamorous hats!

What to wear:

For fun, we encourage you to dress in the spirit of the Royal Ascot Racecourse. Think "My Fair Lady" and you'll be on the right track.

If you really want to be a stickler for the fashion police, here's how it's done: Ladies wear formal day dress and a hat that covers the crown of the head (since this is an evening event, evening wear is perfectly fine as well). Shoulders and midriff are traditionally covered and hems shouldn't be more than 2" above the knee. Stockings or tights are most proper. The Ascot is timeless and you may pick something stylish from any era.

And in our private room, you don't have to worry about your heels sinking into the turf!

SO Lounge

9:00AM: SO Program - What About My Needs?

Dotti Berry

SO Program - What About My Needs?

Presenter: Dotti Berry

SO Lounge, on Thursday May 15 at 9:00AM

For SO's ONLY. For the Significant Other of the transgender partner, whether such partner is male, female, or questioning.

What About My Needs?

Supporting your partner’s journey is an act of love, but it’s equally important to honor your own needs and boundaries. We’ll support you in saying, "I will get on the Esprit bus if and when I want to, and I will not be run over by the bus!" Whether your partner crossdresses part-time or transitions full-time, you deserve space to process your emotions, ask for support, and express your own desires. This session focuses on self-care, setting healthy boundaries, and finding balance so both of you feel seen and heard.

Presenter Info

Dotti Berry, CEO of Training2Transform Global Communications. For details, see writeup under "Overview" session.

1:30PM: SO Program - Redefining Your Relationship

Dotti Berry

SO Program - Redefining Your Relationship

Presenter: Dotti Berry

SO Lounge, on Thursday May 15 at 1:30PM

For transgender couples (all parties must attend)

Redefining Your Relationship

Every relationship evolves — and when gender identity or expression becomes part of that evolution, it can feel like you’re rewriting your story. Whether your partner crossdresses or transitions, this session helps you redefine your partnership, honor your shared history, and build a future that reflects who you both are now. What that means is up to you.

Presenter Info

Dotti Berry, CEO of Training2Transform Global Communications. For details, see writeup under "Overview" session.

10:30PM: Esprit Lounge

Dara Vink

Esprit Lounge

Organizer: Dara Vink

SO Lounge, on Thursday May 15 at 10:30PM

The Esprit Lounge is open most evenings in Room 148 (by the Esprit Registration Desk). It's a place to socialise, chat, share experiences and stories and generally let your hair down. Bring your own snacks to share, along with your beverage of choice. Please indulge responsibly, of course.

At the end of the evening, please clean up as required and leave the room clean and ready for the next morning's session..

Most evenings there there will be a facilitator to help things run smoothly.

Hotel Lounge

11:30AM: Couples Luncheon (for SO Program couples)

Dotti Berry

Couples Luncheon (for SO Program couples)

Organizer: Dotti Berry

Hotel Lounge, on Thursday May 15 at 11:30AM

Luncheon in Hotel Lounge for SO Program Couples.

Presenter Info

Dotti Berry, CEO of Training2Transform Global Communications. For details, see writeup under "Overview" session.

9:00PM: Dancing with DJ Icy Aly

Alyssa Yee

Dancing with DJ Icy Aly

Organizer: Alyssa Yee

Hotel Lounge, on Thursday May 15 at 9:00PM

It's time to put on your favorite dancing dress and those fabulous dancing shoes for an evening with Esprit's own DJ Icy Aly. Spinning popular hits from the 80's, 90's and today, she will definitely keep your heels moving with Electronic Dance Music beats, the newest trend in radio and dance clubs across the country.

Off-site

5:00PM: Dinner at Local Restaurant

Dara Vink

Dinner at Local Restaurant

Presenter: Dara Vink

Off-site, on Thursday May 15 at 5:00PM

This is an opportunity to get out to a local restaurant with your friends. Meet in the Esprit Lobby AT THE TIME SCHEDULED to arrange car pools etc. Bring your badge so we can keep count of how many prople.

This is NOT an Esprit meal and is NOT included in your registration fee.

9:00PM: Mrs. Roper Party at Studio Bob

Esprit Master

Mrs. Roper Party at Studio Bob

Off-site, on Thursday May 15 at 9:00PM

From a small group of 50 New Orleans ladies in 2013, Roper Romps have grown in popularity across the country- including events of 350 “Helens” in Edmonds, and over 500 in Snohomish! Celebrating the loopy landlady from the 1970’s hit sitcom “Three’s Company”, a Roper Romp is a party or pub crawl full of people dressed like the beloved character played by the late Audra Lindley. Be sure to pack your caftan and a Red Curly wig. And join us for an evening of Music, Dancing and Drink Specials! Studio Bob 118 1/2 Front Street (a couple of doors down from The Metta Room)

Presenter Info

Esprit and Studio Bob event.

Friday May 16

Esprit Lobby

9:00AM: Registration OPEN - Morning

Esprit Master

Registration OPEN - Morning

Esprit Lobby, on Friday May 16 at 9:00AM

Esprit Registration Desk is OPEN for checkin, badge photos, badge pickup and general inquiries.

3:00PM: Registration OPEN - Afternoon

Esprit Master

Registration OPEN - Afternoon

Esprit Lobby, on Friday May 16 at 3:00PM

Esprit Registration Desk is OPEN for checkin, badge photos, badge pickup and general inquiries.

Peninsula

9:00AM: Koffee Klatsch

Alyssa Yee

Koffee Klatsch

Presenter: Alyssa Yee

Peninsula, on Friday May 16 at 9:00AM

A morning get-together for first-time attendees. Come share stories, insights, experiences and feelings with your friends. While you're here, enjoy a morning coffee or tea and catch up on what's coming up today.

FIRST-TIME ATTENDEES ONLY, PLEASE.

Presenter Info

Alyssa attended her first Esprit in 2001. Among her many duties, she is the Big Sister/Little Sister Liaison in addition to leading the Koffee Klatsch.

10:00AM: Basic Self Defense for Women and Those Who Present Themselves as Women

Suzanne Adams

Basic Self Defense for Women and Those Who Present Themselves as Women

Presenter: Suzanne Adams

Peninsula, on Friday May 16 at 10:00AM

Suzanne has extensive past and current experience in law enforcement. She will teach you about awareness, avoiding risky situations, moving safely through different surroundings, a variety of self-defense moves, and how to handle interactions with the public and the police. Although this is a self defense course, movement is kept to a minimum and "dressing down" is not necessary.

Presenter Info

Suzanne Adams has been involved within the TG community since the early 1990's. She has been a member of The Emerald City Social Club (one of the three clubs sponsoring Esprit) for over 30 years, serving as a board member for most of that time, eight years as President and currently as Vice President. She was a Facilitator for the Ingersoll Gender Center for 17 years, and worked as the Chair of the Seattle Chief of Police Advisory Committee for Sexual Minorities up until CHOP occurred. Suzanne also spent 12 years as the Citizen Observer on the Seattle Police Firearms Review board, paying forward all of the support that the City of Seattle has given to the LGBTQIA+ Community. She has worked with the Esprit Committee, serving in many of the planning positions, most recently as Co-Chair of Esprit. Suzanne has been a presenter at Esprit every year since 1993.

2:30PM: Electrolysis vs Laser Hair removal

Debbie Caddell

Electrolysis vs Laser Hair removal

Presenter: Debbie Caddell

Peninsula, on Friday May 16 at 2:30PM

Presenter Info

See file submitted above Use my photo from last year.

SO Lounge

9:00AM: SO Program - Walking on Sunshine...Together!

Dotti Berry

SO Program - Walking on Sunshine...Together!

Presenter: Dotti Berry

SO Lounge, on Friday May 16 at 9:00AM

For SO's ONLY. For the Significant Other of the transgender partner, whether such partner is male, female, or questioning.

Walking on Sunshine...Together!

As we wrap up the week, let’s celebrate the growth, understanding, and resilience you’ve developed. Whether your partner’s journey involves occasional crossdressing or a full-time transition, the love and connection you share are what truly matter. Together, we’ll reflect on your journey, share insights, and look ahead to a future filled with compassion, joy, and partnership. “Walking on Sunshine...Together” is all about joy, love, and that amazing feeling when things are finally going right. The chorus of the song repeats that uplifting line: “I’m walking on sunshine, and don’t it feel good!”

Presenter Info

Dotti Berry, CEO of Training2Transform Global Communications. For details, see writeup under "Overview" session.

2:00PM: SO Program - Celebrating Love in All Its Forms

Dotti Berry

SO Program - Celebrating Love in All Its Forms

Presenter: Dotti Berry

SO Lounge, on Friday May 16 at 2:00PM

For transgender couples (all parties must attend)

Celebrating Love in All Its Forms

That’s what “Walking on Sunshine” is all about! At the heart of this journey is love — love that adapts, grows, and thrives through change. You can survive as a couple, but does that really appeal to you? Why not choose to thrive! Come explore what thriving means to you, both individually and as a couple. As we close out the week, we’ll celebrate the courage, commitment, and connection you’ve strengthened. Whether your partner crossdresses or transitions, your dedication to each other is a beautiful testament to the power of love, and that’s worth honoring.

Presenter Info

Dotti Berry, CEO of Training2Transform Global Communications. For details, see writeup under "Overview" session.

9:30PM: Esprit Lounge

Dara Vink

Esprit Lounge

Organizer: Dara Vink

SO Lounge, on Friday May 16 at 9:30PM

The Esprit Lounge is open most evenings in Room 148 (by the Esprit Registration Desk). It's a place to socialise, chat, share experiences and stories and generally let your hair down. Bring your own snacks to share, along with your beverage of choice. Please indulge responsibly, of course.

At the end of the evening, please clean up as required and leave the room clean and ready for the next morning's session..

Most evenings there there will be a facilitator to help things run smoothly.

Olympic/Juan de Fuca

12:00PM: The Amazing Esprit Fashion Show and Luncheon!

Esprit Master

The Amazing Esprit Fashion Show and Luncheon!

Olympic/Juan de Fuca, on Friday May 16 at 12:00PM

The Fashion Show is another of Esprit's many traditions. Clap, cheer and take hundreds of photos while your fellow attendees model everything from sportswear to casual attire to formal evening gowns. You can even sign up to be one of the models!

You don't need to have any modelling experience - just a desire to wear beautiful clothes and look gorgeous!

Make sure you've signed up by Thursay morning in the Esprit Lobby! See more information at the Fashion Show.

Lunch is included for Esprit attendees or can be purchased. Please note that lunches must be purchased BEFORE Wednesday. 

Elks Ballroom

6:00PM: The Julia Lauer World-Famous Talent Show!

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The Julia Lauer World-Famous Talent Show!

Elks Ballroom, on Friday May 16 at 6:00PM

The Friday Talent Show is our home grown variety show featuring the various talents of Esprit’s attendees. It is the highlight of an evening that begins with cocktails and a full meal served in the Ballroom of the elegant and historic Naval Elks Lodge, a short distance from the Red Lion. Since Esprit 2000, hundreds of attendees have taken to the stage to sing a song, do a skit, maybe some standup comedy or even magic. If you would like to perform, please see the performer guidelines below. We look forward to a fun and entertaining evening for all!

The cocktail hour and dinner are for Esprit attendees only. Then we will open the doors for a suggested donation of $5.00 at the door, all proceeds will benefit Hospice of Clallam County. There will be a no-host bar serving alcohol, so guests must be 21 years of age. Esprit staff and a local security guard will provide security and screen local guests.

After the talent show you are welcome to linger at the Elks as you ponder the rest of the evening. Our very own DJ ICY ALY will be spinning dance tunes for us to dance the night away.

Presenter Info

For many years the Esprit Talent Show has been produced by Julia Lauer. She brought just the right mix of energy, skill, talent and passion to the production to raise it to a professional-quality production. The town of Port Angeles looks forward to seeing the show every year.

In 2022 due to a sudden emergency just hours before showtime Julia was unable to run the show. However, thanks to her wonderful preparations, her well-trained team carried the evening off without a hitch.

In 2023 we lost our wonderful Julia. Her team couldn't let her down, though, and from rough notes and memories and sheer determination the 2023 Talent Show went on and was as memorable as all the rest. 

Saturday May 17

Esprit Lobby

9:00AM: Registration OPEN - Morning

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Registration OPEN - Morning

Esprit Lobby, on Saturday May 17 at 9:00AM

Esprit Registration Desk is OPEN for checkin, badge photos, badge pickup and general inquiries.

2:00PM: Registration by APPT ONLY

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Registration by APPT ONLY

Esprit Lobby, on Saturday May 17 at 2:00PM

Esprit Registration Desk is OPEN by appointment ONLY. Text 425-736-4013.

Peninsula

9:00AM: Koffee Klatsch

Alyssa Yee

Koffee Klatsch

Presenter: Alyssa Yee

Peninsula, on Saturday May 17 at 9:00AM

A morning get-together for first-time attendees. Come share stories, insights, experiences and feelings with your friends. While you're here, enjoy a morning coffee or tea and catch up on what's coming up today.

FIRST-TIME ATTENDEES ONLY, PLEASE.

Presenter Info

Alyssa attended her first Esprit in 2001. Among her many duties, she is the Big Sister/Little Sister Liaison in addition to leading the Koffee Klatsch.

10:00AM: Cross-Gender Hormone Treatment for Gender Dysphoria

Jennifer Burnett

Cross-Gender Hormone Treatment for Gender Dysphoria

Presenter: Jennifer Burnett

Peninsula, on Saturday May 17 at 10:00AM

For those who are considering (or have already started) medical treatment to transition to their true gender, there is much information, as well as a great deal of misinformation, available on the Internet regarding the hormones/medications that are commonly employed for this purpose. This often promotes confusion as to what is the best and safest medical approach to a gender transition. This class consists of a Power Point presentation followed by a Q & A session concerning of the different hormone protocols used (for both M2F and F2M), their risks, benefits and side effects. Ancillary testing and additional/adjunct medications will also be discussed. I will also provide resource information and websites where medical providers can gain further knowledge on the treatment of Gender Dysphoria.

Presenter Info

Jennifer A. Burnett, MS, MD, FAAFP Past Positions & Accreditations (Now Retired): Assoc. Professor of Family & Community Medicine, UCSF-Fresno; Faculty- Fresno Family Practice Residency Program, Board-Certified in Family Medicine, Medical Advisory Board of the UCSF Centers of Excellence for TG Healthcare. Academy of Family Physicians- Fellow & Lifetime Member, World Professional Association for Transgender Health, Christian Medical & Dental Associations. Lectures delivered: Medical Treatment of Gender Dysphoria, the Spiritual implications of being born Transsexual, et al. presented at National TG Conferences including IFGE, Esprit, Southern Comfort, Gender Spectrum, Philadelphia Trans Health Conference, TG Religious Leader’s Summit, the 2009, 2011 & 2014 WPATH International Symposiums, the American Academy of Family Physicians 2010 Nat. Scientific Assembly and the 2013 National Transgender Health Summit. Additional Appointments & Awards: California’s 2009 LGBT Delegate to the AAFP’s National Congress of Special Constituencies. Recipient of the 2009 UCSF Chancellor’s Award for LGBT Leadership, 2009 Champions of Diversity Award

Olympic/Juan de Fuca

12:00PM: Saturday Keynote Luncheon

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Saturday Keynote Luncheon

Olympic/Juan de Fuca, on Saturday May 17 at 12:00PM

The Esprit Committee is pleased to announce Zane Alvarez as our Esprit 2025 Keynote Speaker. He will share his journey being Trans in the Military and his educational support  in the Community.

Zane Alvarez (he/him) was assigned female at birth, but as a child, he prayed to become a boy. At this young age, he didn’t know what to make of these feelings, and he certainly didn’t have the words to explain it since gender issues were still far from the mainstream.

Alvarez came out as a lesbian in his teens and began dressing more masculine, but this identity still didn’t feel completely right. He graduated high school, and six years ago, he went on to join the Army as a behavioral health technician.

He was stationed in Augusta, Georgia, and one day, when a Starbucks barista accidentally addressed him as a male, it just felt right. This gave him an intense epiphany. He talked to some of his transgender friends and began to realize why something never felt right: he wasn’t a lesbian. He was a transgender man.

6:00PM: The Saturday Night Gala Dinner!

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The Saturday Night Gala Dinner!

Olympic/Juan de Fuca, on Saturday May 17 at 6:00PM

Saturday night is the night we celebrate New Friends, Old Friends and all that has happened during the past week. Where better to enjoy ourselves than the Red Lion Ballroom, transformed into a luxurious banquet room!  Come and support the Community Hospice of Clallam County with our Charity Auction!

Elks Ballroom

4:00PM: Graduation Ceremony

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Graduation Ceremony

Elks Ballroom, on Saturday May 17 at 4:00PM

Your first time at Esprit is a very big step, no less significant than graduation from school. At Esprit Graduation we recognize and honor those who have made this step in a formal ceremony. Everyone is invited to attend Graduation in the Elks Ceremonial Room and welcome their new sisters. First-timers who have been at Esprit since at least Wednesday are eligible to be part of the Stage Ceremony.

We especially encourage Big Sisters and spouses to attend. Spouses can also be first-timers - after all, it's a big step for you too!

The Metta Room

9:00PM: Dancing with The Nasty Habits

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Dancing with The Nasty Habits

The Metta Room, on Saturday May 17 at 9:00PM

ONE NIGHT ONLY- THE NASTY HABITS AT THE METTA ROOM

Majority-trans 80’s dance band The Nasty Habits, an Esprit and Port Angeles legend has announced it will be returning to play a post-Gala set at a one-night-only special engagement at the Metta Room!

“After some uncertainty over where the majority-trans 80s dance band The Nasty Habits would play during Esprit, it's finally been settled that they'll be at The Metta Room (one of the biggest dance/music/bar nightclubs in Port Angeles). Metta had closed last year but the owner said they'd reopen if TNH was playing because of the hundreds of local PA fans who fill the bar. If you want an intense, loud, joyous dance party with supportive locals, this is the place to be.”

Esprit attendees can attend without paying a cover charge with your Esprit badge!

While not strictly an Esprit event in the past, in recognition that a majority of our attendees choose to see The Nasty Habits the Esprit Committee has chosen this as our official Post-Gala event and band for 2025!

SO Lounge

11:59PM: Slumber Party

Dara Vink

Slumber Party

Organizer: Dara Vink

SO Lounge, on Saturday May 17 at 11:59PM

The Saturday night slumber party is a longstanding Esprit tradition. The Hospitality Suite begins to fill with ladies in nighties as the Saturday night graduation dinner and party draws to a close. Some snacks and pizza are usually available (as are a lot of leftover beverages that come crawling out of people's rooms). The room is usually filled to capacity and the evening is filled with lively moderated conversation, backrubs and footrubs, and more. A few diehards haul blankets and pillows to the room and stay as late as they can. The slumber party sets aside some time to share your experiences in a warm and respectful setting.

And who knows who else might show up? In 1999, a barbershop quartet was passing through the hotel late at night and stumbled onto the Saturday night slumber party. Doing what any gentlemen would do, they politely greeted the ladies in the hall and then proceeded to serenade the ladies with an impromptu performance.

You're welcome to wear anything in good taste and reason to the party. Some ladies simply pop in after the Saturday night party in their party outfits, chat for a few minutes, and disappear. Some choose to attend the slumber party in makeup; others choose to be comfortable and get cleaned up and dispense with the bra, wig, and other accessories they normally use when dressed. You may wish to lean somewhat to the more practical side if you plan on staying a while. Most of the seating consists of simple upright chairs, the floor, a counter, pillows/blankets, and perhaps a few seats on a sofa. You may be standing up and sitting down and shifting position frequently depending on how crowded the room gets and the activities that are going on. In addition, you may want to wear or bring something (such as a robe) that allows you to comfortably walk the length of the hotel to get back to your room for supplies or blankets.

Sunday May 18

Hotel Lounge

11:00AM: Farewell Brunch

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Farewell Brunch

Hotel Lounge, on Sunday May 18 at 11:00AM

This is the wind-up to Esprit. It's a time for goodbyes, of course, but also for "see you next year!" It's also a great opportunity to reminisce with your friends. There will be a continental breakfast item with coffee, tea and juice.

11:45AM: Storytime with Ginger

Ginger Chien

Storytime with Ginger

Organizer: Ginger Chien

Hotel Lounge, on Sunday May 18 at 11:45AM

As a great closing to our week together, Ginger Chien entertains us with a story or two. Her tales are always funny, touching and thought-provoking, and her engaging, personal style will captivate you from the outset. Please stay for this special treat and the end of our Farewell Brunch.

Presenter Info

I attended my first Esprit in 1999 and spent subsequent years trying new things. This has included volunteering at the Registration Desk, being a Big Sister, performing in the Talent Show, maintaining the Esprit website for a number of years, serving on the Scholarship Committee, and helping to plan Esprit each year. My main excitement at Esprit is rocking out with The Nasty Habits on the final weekend.

My other interests range from the dark to the sublime. On my shelves you'll find dark, disturbing movies and light-hearted children's books side by side. I love costumes, Play-Doh, and blowing into my dog's mouth to make her lips flap. I'm an open-mic storyteller and my stories about life, love, and being have been presented at professional and technical conferences around the country.

I transitioned in 2011 and am proud to work at AT&T Mobility, a company that has earned top honors from Diversity Inc. and 100% rating from HRC year after year, even against constantly evolving best-in-class measures of transgender benefits. If you're curious about how a best-in-class company carries out diversity policies, take a look here and here.